Hello Wild Dove,
I am still strugling with this new gift. I was visiting my cousin in her store in Bermuda about a month ago, and her daughter came into the store to pick up some dog food while I was there. Within seconds after she arrived, I sensed that something was wrong with her health, but could not put my finger on it. Usually I am told what is wrong with a person and asked to relay this information to them, but not in this instance. I was over to my cousin's House this past Saturday as I made a pot of Gumbo and had taken this over to share with her family. The Daughter showed up and said that she could not eat with us as she was just diagnosed with some condition dealing with Glutin something. She cannot have anything with Glutin in it. The day I had seen her in the store, I was reluctant on telling her what I had sensed about her health. Does it get any easier, or do I have to feel like crap every time I encounter something like this. I felt so bad that I did not say anything, but this was usually not how I am informed about someone's condition. I am spending Christmas with my cousin and all of her family this year and I am feeling like they expect more of me than I can give. I do not want my gift to be turned into some kind of circus act, as one Daughter of my cousin has brought up the fact that a little girl had fell into the well on the property and passed on many years ago. I believe that they think I can just come over and let them know if the little girl is still around as her grandaughter is always talking to this little girl in the house. I told them all that I don't pick and choose what comes through, it just happen's when it happen's. I just read that you had a birthday and wanted to wish you a happy birthday and wish your holiday season brings you Joy.